If you are wondering what "that moment" is, let me share a few of them that occurred in my life in the last 6 days. Feel free to sit down, relax and even have a giggle or two. Here goes.
Last Thursday I was all excited to start packing to go on the yearly Memorial Day camping trip. I get home about 5:30 pm from a good day's work and head to the garage to pull meat out of the freezer. Wait! What are those puddles of water on the floor? NO..."that moment"...when you open the freezer door to find it's entire contents thawed. Even the turkey!!
Choice: panic and freak out or do your best to stay calm and find a solution. First a little desire to panic at how to pack and now care for the freezer contents. Then, start making phone calls to farm out food. Shed a few tears of "How'd this happen" & gratitude. Thank you to all my friends who were willing to take my basically 100 pounds of various meats and cook and refreeze it, in their freezers. Thank you for calmness that assisted in finding the ultimate solution where I learned you can actually refreeze thawed meet if it is still cold. Thank you for my friend's the Howells who are letting me borrow freezer space at their house.
In my freezer brain fog I packed the next day for camping. This created some more interesting moments. While driving and almost to our destination, I realized I forgot to pack the favorite sausages to cook on the fire. Choice: be upset or realize it will have to be ok and we can have a cook out when we get home. Oh, my sister forgot hers too...double whammy!
After setting up the tents and unpacking the truck, "that moment" when I realized I hadn't actually packed the air mattress or the pump for my kids mattresses. I actually had walked by them 20+ times and thought, "grab those now." Choice: have a tantrum or go back to where there is reception and see if sister has left yet. I actually chose to have a small tantrum as I was beginning to be on total overload. Then...stranger pulls up on 4 wheeler and starts looking at me. Weird! Only he wasn't a stranger but rather an old family friend and my angel in that moment. He happened to have an air mattress we could borrow. He drove me to his trailer, dug out the mattress and drove me back. We still had to blow them up and amazingly figured that out too. It wasn't ideal but it worked and we didn't have to sleep on the ground. That moment could have been ugly. :)
We had several smaller "that moments" during the weekend which happily I can report all worked out smoothly. I might have even learned a few things in the process. Upon returning home, I still had that freezer to clean out and figure out what to do with. Not something I was looking forward too!!
I gagged my way through cleaning and got all the mold off the floor and asked my neighbor if he knew anything about freezers. Amazingly, he had worked at a place that gave him some knowledge of freezers. Woohoo! Now, please know, I had checked breakers and all that jazz but had not pulled the freezer out from the wall yet. Well, upon my neighbor pulling it out, I saw a little light on the plug in...a blasted GFI switch. That moment when you realize and pray that by pushing the switch your freezer might just still work. Push...click...freezer starts humming! Choice: be embarrassed because I didn't pull it out and figure it out on my own, do a little dance, hug the neighbor or give thanks. I chose the last three of course and am looking forward to returning my meat to its home, which now also is shiny clean and smells fresh.
What did I learn? Staying calm is the better choice and allowed me to actually create solutions. I have awesome friends who I can reach out to if necessary. You can shed tears and stay calm at the same time. There is always another way! It's not the end of the world and ya just never know how things might turn out. Miracles happened and angels attended. I am grateful for the people in my life who love and support me...especially in "that moment!"
Share with us some of your "that moments" and what you learned and were better for it.
Until Next Time...Go BE Great!
Jennifer Saunders
ACE Certified Personal Trainer
Reiki Energy, Intuitive Life Coach
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