I don't know about you, but I spent a fair amount of my life thinkin I had to be perfect...the first time. Wow...the pressure that comes with that!! Usually afraid to ask questions and heaven forbid I should make a mistake and look like a fool. Some things I never even really gave a good effort because I wanted it to be right the first time and unfortunately now, wish I had. Heaven forbid I should practice and take the chance of looking silly or like I don't know what I'm doing.
It's amazing how incredibly hard we can be on ourselves in this adventure we call life! The beautiful thing is...we get to have as many chances as we need to learn the things we are meant to learn. Everyday is a clean slate where we can create the life we desire and where opportunities and unexplored potential lay before us. Sadly, we tend to take that slate, dredge up the past, splash it on the clean slate and say that's all there is for us, believing we will never be more than what we've done or already failed at.
So my challenge to you this day, week and month is to see each new day for what it is...a new day. A clean slate. A day of adventure waiting to happen, both inside and outside of us. A day of Celebration. Find the ways you can celebrate yourself and not just in big ways...all those little things count as well! Make a list and you will be amazed and just how fabulous you truly are!
Celebrate the fact you woke up to a new day. Celebrate the bed you slept in and that you can shower. Celebrate that you bumped your toe and it brought you back to awareness. Celebrate watching your children and all they can teach you. Celebrate you went to the gym (or even just set out your workout clothes) or pushed a little harder in a workout. Celebrate the food you have and the body you have to enjoy all these things with...even if it's not your ideal body at the moment. Celebrate it! Accept it! Love it!
When you can accept each day as a day of possibilities, whatever they may be for you, then the changes you desire to make can begin to happen. Go out and be courageous and put your full self into all that you do knowing that you are growing and learning...not failing. Love the moments you may feel like a dork and you will be able to let them go and realize that a second chance, or an 80th chance, will be available for you and You Will master the things you desire to master.
Glad I am finally figuring this out...now where is my guitar?
Until next time...Go BE Great!!
For more information or interest in Intuitive Life Coaching contact Jennifer...jsaunders@mvhospital.net or call 557-2823.
For more information or interest in Intuitive Life Coaching contact Jennifer...jsaunders@mvhospital.net or call 557-2823.